Went to G’s talk on tattoos. *Got his first tattoo at 42. He’d waited 20 years and finally got the courage. He joked: “I was worried what Mum would think, though I got 30 piercings and Mum didn’t say anything about those.”
Entries Tagged as ‘S&M’
December 7, 2009
You can be whoever you want to be
It was a balmy night and about 30 of us went to Surry Hills to see Lee Harrington, a special guest presenter visiting from the US, who comes here every couple of years. He reminded us that last time he was here, he was a voluptuous, curvy woman, Bridgett, but has had surgery and the [...]
December 2, 2009
Most unbelievable fetish ever
I find it very annoying — the dent in my hair from wearing a ponytail. There’s someone who takes photos and loves that dent in the hair.
September 18, 2009
Sex toys controlled via the internet
A friend blogged about a favourite sex toy which is controlled via the internet. I’d heard of sex toys being operated by a remote, but usually within a limited range, across the same room. “The Televibe is a must for great phone sex or long distance domination. It’s easy to use and comes with an [...]
August 26, 2009
Fetish dance party
I went to a dance party recently and the police were there for a few hours with sniffer dogs, continually doing walk-throughs and taking people aside for a frisking and checking through their bags even if the dog hadn’t spotted anything. Which seemed pointless cause the only thing they seemed to be dispensing were little [...]
August 5, 2007
There’s a Ninja in the dungeon
Went to see a visiting Ninja at an inner west dungeon. He’s not into BDSM – he’s a 73-yr-old Texan ninja master and former airline pilot whose stepdaughter is a pro-domme in Australia, so he taught her a few moves to use with her domming and for her protection. He visits her once a year [...]
July 22, 2007
24/7 relationship with fictional Harry Potter character
I wrote this piece after a couple of weeks of interviewing one of the Snape’s Wives and have written it up in the first person viewpoint using her words. I wrote it to share with the Sydney S&M (BDSM) scenesters, as I was interested in the dynamics of a relationship with an authoritarian character who [...]
July 22, 2007
Woof! BDSM 24/7 role play lifestyle
Dog, 53, and DaddySir, 40, met seven years ago when Dog emigrated from New Zealand, “looking for a man”. “Being a dog is part of my whole persona – I don’t switch it on or off,” Dog says. “We don’t distinguish between the S&M scene and the dog scene [dogdom] – I’m always the dog/slave [...]
July 22, 2007
Visit to church
The first time I heard X mention religion was when he discussed masturbating into a chalice, scatting on a crucifix and stuffing two communion wafers up a woman’s twat and then bonking her. He’d been presenting a talk about the Marquis de Sade at the time and showed us six thick well-thumbed Sade books he [...]

