What’s on around Australia — October

Labour Day is celebrated in New South Wales, Queensland, South Australia and the ACT this month, so there’s a huge choice of sports grand finals, mardi gras parades and foodie festivals to enjoy.

The Tropical Mardi Gras, Cairns, with the party occurring over the weekend from 1 to 5 October, will try to reignite the heyday of Surfers Paradise's 'Glitter Strip'.

New South Wales

The biggest event in NSW on the Labour Day weekend is the Telstra NRL Grand Final, on 4 October, which  attracts a sell-out crowd at ANZ Stadium.

For something grittier, there’s the Deni Ute Muster, held in Deniliquin, from 2 to 3 October, for ute drivers and fans of Cold Chisel, Birds of Tokyo and Lee Kernaghan. Look for the ute on a pole, which commemorates the town’s holding of the Guinness World Record for the largest number of legally paraded utes.

Sculpture by the Sea is a popular free public art event at Bondi and Tamarama Beach. Uploaded by Tim Gillin, via Flickr under Creative Commons Attribution 2.0 Generic License.

Mountain biking, kayaking and running are all part of the Upper Murray Challenge on 3 October. It’s a one-day multi-sport challenge held in the foothills west of Mt Kosciuszko that involves a 38km mountain bike ride, 26km kayak paddle and 25km run. For another triathlon challenge, try the Ironman 70.3 Port Macquarie on 18 October, where competitors from around Australia can compete in an age category that includes a 1.9km swim, 90km bike ride and 21.1km run.

From 8-25 October, your tastebuds will love the Night Noodle Markets as part of the Sydney Morning Herald Good Food Month. Art appreciators will be dazzled by the 2km-long Bondi to Tamarama spectacle of Sculpture by the Sea from 22 October to 8 November, a free event with more than 100 artworks.

Other festivals include Parramasala: A spicy celebration of cultures, at Parramatta and Harris Park from 23 to 25 October that features Bollywood dancers and yoga.

Enjoy the noise and power of the Supercheap Auto Bathurst 1000, from 8 to 11 October, at Mount Panorama for a 1000km endurance race on the famous track.

Let the memory live again at the Cats revival, straight from London’s West End, at the Capitol Theatre, Sydney, from 31 October to 22 November.

If you’re travelling to regional areas, savour the vinous extravagance of the Orange Wine Festival from 16 October to 1 November; the month-long harvest delights of the Taste Riverina Food Festival in Wagga Wagga from 1 to 31 October; or a long-table dinner, 12 feature films and a starry-night concert at the Dungog Festival from 22 to 25 October.

Victoria

The biggest day of the year in the Australian Football League is the AFL Grand Final, with 100,000 fans expected to be at Yarra Park on October 3. And the biggest news this year is that all Victorians will, for the first time, be able to celebrate with a public holiday on the eve of the grand final, when the parade of players and coaches weaves its way at noon through Melbourne CBD on October 2.

Muppets, Music and Magic: Jim Henson’s Legacy will commemorate 25 years since the great puppeteer passed away, and his rare works will be screened at the Australian Centre for the Moving Image until October 11. He is best-known for his work on Sesame Street and the Muppet movies, but early efforts will be unearthed from the Henson Foundation vaults.

For the artistically minded, there’s irreverent and unconventional haute couture in Jean Paul Gaultier’s ‘From the Sidewalk to the Catwalk’ exhibition at the National Gallery of Victoria from 17 October to 8 February; and the Melbourne Festival from 18 to 25 October featuring international arts and culture, theatre, dance, music, films and free events. In central Victoria, do-si-do to the annual Maldon Folk Festival from October 30 to 2 November, with four days of folk music, workshops and lots of folk and bush dances.

Raise your heart rate at the Melbourne Marathon Festival on 18 October with the choice of various distances — the shortest is a 3km walk. All events end with a lap of the Melbourne Cricket Ground. The Australian Motorcycle Grand Prix, featuring international competitors on a stunning racetrack at Phillip Island from 16 to 18 October, will also get your heart pumping.

Determined riders at Phillip Island. Photo by: Damir Ivka/Focal Vision. CC by 2.0.

Queensland

Join the Love Boat Launch Party on the Reef Magic II at the Tropical Mardi Gras, Cairns, with the party occurring over the weekend from 1 to 5 October.

The Gold Coast will host its first Glitter Festival from 28 September to 5 October with art and culture for the gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender, intersex, queer, asexual and pansexual communities. Its purpose is to reignite the heyday of Surfers Paradise’s “Glitter Strip”. The entertainment line-up includes the first Gold Coast screening of Holding the Man, and Trevor Ashley’s Liza (On an E) show.

Rev your engines for the V8 Supercars Castrol Edge Gold Coast 600 from 23 to 25 October with the 300km enduro races on Saturday and Sunday. Other spectacles will be provided by 600-horsepower monster stadium trucks, imported from the US, which will jump ramps and fly 100m through the air at the same height as a two-storey building. Cold Chisel will perform popular hits such as Flame Trees and Khe Sanh on Saturday at Broadwater Parklands on 24 October.

If you need leafy ideas for your garden, head to the Brisbane International Garden Show from 8 to 11 October at Pine Rivers Park, Strathpine. Go to the free Plant Clinic for assistance and plant identification. There’s a Plant Cloak Room where you can check your plants in while you shop for more.

Western Australia

Three celebrity chefs from MasterChef Australia, Ben Milbourne, Georgia Barnes and Jessie Spiby, will give free demonstrations on how to cook their favourite recipes at the Perth Food & Wine Expo from 9 to 11 October. The festival, held at the Perth Convention and Exhibition Centre, offers up three days of gourmet food and wine and lots of free edible samples; take part in free classes on wine, cheese, beer and liqueur and check out more than 150 gourmet exhibits.

If good company while dining is more important, try the Breakfast with Elephants at Perth Zoo on 24 October. You’ll have scrambled eggs, bacon, muffin and sausages, while the elephants play soccer, music, do spray painting and trunk kisses.

See how the Governor of Western Australia lives when Government House Open Day is held on 18 October from 11am to 3pm. Bands and choirs will provide entertainment as you stroll through the house and gardens, exploring this grand heritage building.

It’s World Space Week from 7 to 10 October, and Gingin Observatory will hold a Dark Night in Toodyay, where you can peer through the telescopes at nebulae and star clusters. To get there, catch the train or drive about 85km north from Perth and stay at a B&B or bring a tent or caravan. There is also the Gravity Discovery Centre next door, which is open from 10am to 4pm.

WA Children’s Week will be celebrated from 24 October to 1 November with a free FunSafe Day at Whiteman Park on 25 October. Children’s Week Fairy Queen Ambassador, Caroline, will make an appearance and there will be more than 30 not-for-profit, community and government organisations in the Parent Expo area.

South Australia

This year is the 25th anniversary of the Ceduna Oysterfest, which runs over four days from 1 to 4 October. On Friday, head to the Ceduna Golf Club for Shuck’n Loud Live Music, with three bands playing and a lip-sync “Battle of all Battles”. The Oysterfest Parade will hit the streets on Saturday with several prizes for best float and best-dressed efforts. If you’re handy with a knife, you might take out the Fish Filleting competition. Don’t worry about missing the AFL Grand Final, as it’ll be screened at the McEvoy Marquee and Ceduna Foreshore Hotel bar. On Sunday, there will be more oyster eating and shucking competitions, a three-hour concert and a closing fireworks spectacular over Murat Bay.

For those who are getting better with age, there is the Australian Masters Games from 3 to 10 October, with about 60 sports to choose from and an expected 10,000 participants and up to a total of 1500 volunteers. You have to be at least 20-years-old to enter gymnastics events.

What the World Needs Now is Burt Bacharach who will begin his Australian tour at Adelaide Entertainment Centre on 24 October, along with other great acts during the month including KISS, Robbie Williams and Neil Diamond.

Tasmania

Enjoy rides on a steam train, petrol-engine train, miniature trains and tractor at the Annual Steam Spectacular Weekend at Pearn’s Steam World, from 31 October to 2 November. Admission is $10 for adults and $5 for children. The museum has been run by volunteers since the 1980s and has more than 200 major items, which were collected by the Pearn family via their agricultural contracting business which has been operating in the area for more than 80 years.

Raise money for research into heart disease in the Run and Walk for your Heart in Launceston on October 4. It’s a 5km on-road run/walk, starting at Aurora Stadium at 10am. There’s a Kids’ 800m run from 9.30am. Enjoy a free healthy kick-start breakfast for all runners. Hobart will willkommen you to Oktoberfest on 24 October where you can “embrace your inner German” with Stein races, strong-woman battles, beard competitions, cow milking, eating bratwurst, oompah bands and beer.

Australian Capital Territory

Over the Labor Day weekend, sample a “signature dish” matched with local wines for $20 for savoury fare and $15 for desserts, at the Tradies Murrumbateman Moving Feast on 3 to 4 October. Murrumbateman is about 30 minutes’ drive from Canberra.

The annual Scott Australian 24 hour Mountain Bike Championships is on 10 to 11 October at Stromlo Forest Park, which will include a solo 24-hour championship run. Solo riders can enter an age-based section for the title of Australian national champion. Age-based team sections (the average age of all riders in your team) are calculated in a way to encourage families to take part together.

Pas de chat your way to the Canberra Theatre Centre to see Bolshoi Theatre soloist Gediminas Taranda star among 40 dancers in the Imperial Russian Ballet Company’s Swan Lake on 21 to22 October.

Northern Territory

Enjoy an intimate performance by the Australian Chamber Orchestra, led by Richard Tognetti, for 380 people at Ayers Rock Resort on 30 and 31 October. William Barton will be a special guest, playing didgeridoo.

For glorious landscape digital photography, take a look at Aboriginal artist Leon Blignaut’s exhibition, Northern Territory Landscapes, from 5 to 31 October at Eco House, George Brown Darwin Botanic Gardens. Leon’s photos were taken when he travelled with his brother Bob on a motorbike through the outback and desert. Admission is free from 9am to 3pm.

10 life lessons from The Voice Australia

When not imitating emoji faces and passing out in the heat, the 5 coaches of The Voice Australia dispensed their pearls of wisdom. Here’s what we learnt.

This year's The Voice judges from left to right - the Madden brothers, Delta Goodrem, Jessie J and Ricky Martin.

1. “If it gives you the impulse to stand up, do it man,  and people will stand up with you if you own that standing up.” — Ricky Martin

LIFE LESSON: Believe in and back yourself. Trust your instincts and, if you give it everything you’ve got, everyone else might go along with it too.

2. “You’re a very kind woman, but I want blood on that stage.” — Ricky Martin

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The reality of dating: how to find your next partner

Dating and relationships have become TV reality-show gold: some date in the dark and others marry the first time they meet

But when it’s time to finally settle down, there are plenty of ways to meet a special someone that don’t involve a rose ceremony. Here are a few tips to help you find the one.

I've lost my number, can I have yours?

Short courses

You’re likely to be better off finding someone with similar interests — 84 per cent of Australian singles consider this to be an important factor in a partner. Taking a class at your local community collegeart gallery or anywhere else that offers something you’re passionate about means you’ll have a better chance of finding someone who you’ll connect with on an intellectual level.

Speed dating

This is suitable for those who want to skip the small talk. For an interesting twist, try themed speed dating, such as Craft Singles Work Shops (based in Sydney, Melbourne and Brisbane) which holds eight craft challenges (such as composing love songs and making plasticine figures) for 32 singles where you create for five minutes, then move on to the next task.

Meet with like-minded daters

Meetup.com started as a way to connect people to their local community by helping people with similar interests get together. Search online for “Dating and relationships Meetups“, then key in your state and home town to find a group of singles who like going out. There are singles groups for vegans, fitness buffs and  groups based on age ranges and preferences. Once you’ve set up a profile, browse the current singles groups or start your own.

Online dating

Finding a partner can be as easy as swiping right on a Saturday night. Online dating is one of the most common ways for Australians to find love, along with meeting through friends and family or at work.

Meeting someone online is the third-most popular place to find a match.

OkCupid: Dubbed “the Google of online dating”, OkCupid differentiates itself by using a complex algorithm to help people find matches quicker. It’s free to create a profile. It has data regarding “Race and attraction” collected from its daters over the years. Their approach is: “We don’t care what you do, just don’t be a jerk about it.”

RSVP: Set up a profile and send and accept virtual kisses, which are free. Buy  virtual stamps to send a message. RSVP claims one out of every three Australians on its site end up in a long-term relationship, and one in five get married or settle down.

eHarmony: Fill out an in-depth relationship questionnaire so you can be matched with compatible singles based on 29 unique dimensions of compatibility. Since its Australian launch in 2007, 2.6 million people have registered with the site and there have been over 11,000 marriages to date .

Tinder: Tinder is free. You swipe right to express interest. There are limits on swiping and rewinding to keep it genuine, unless you pay for Tinder Plus, where you can “like” to the limit.

Grindr: This app for gay and bisexual men is free and shows the location of the nearest possible dates or hook-ups on a map. You tap on photos to see the user’s profile, chat and send photos. There is also Blendr, for people of various sexual orientations or those seeking non-sexual friendships.

match.com: To use match.com, you need to become a subscriber to communicate with prospective suitors. Membership is free and you must not have been convicted of a felony, or be required to register as a sex offender.

Plenty of Fish: It’s free to create a profile and send messages via POF.com. There are over 3 million active users on the site and you can use their Chemistry Predictor to be matched with other like-minded singles.

JSwipe: This is for those looking for a Jewish match, and loads with a spinning star of David. You just need to state your religious sect and kosher status. When you make a match, a Hava Nagila animation appears along with a “Mazel Tov” graphic of a person being hoisted up on a chair.

That’s the way I like it

(appeared in the Sydney Morning Herald as a 2-page spread)

Nothing to wear to a special event? Then make your own outfit.

Foxy ... Patrick Bremner with muzzle, ears and tail he made with partner Konrad. Hair, make-up and photo: Furr, Newtown

Foxy … Patrick Bremner with muzzle, ears and tail he made with partner Konrad.
Hair, make-up and photo: Furr, Newtown

Hammer it out

I’ve met a few people who enjoy making costumes, such as Alison Haberfield, 24, who started by modifying op-shop garments. She has been making dance party and burlesque outfits for the past five years.

“I’m keen on using a hammer – gorgeous things can be done with eyelets and rivets. I have no sewing training and do a lot of hand-stitching,” Haberfield says.

“I get carried away with the silhouette of an enormous tail-piece or bustle-style skirt, or the fact that particular dance moves look especially hot in a skirt that’s split to the hips. I’m a drama queen in that way.”

She sometimes looks at sites such as Burning Man (images.burningman.com) for inspiration.

“If you’re the sort of person who sighs despondently when the prevailing fashion is a sort of mandated hideousness, then make your own clothes,” Haberfield says. “There’s no need to suffer just because someone, somewhere, has decided that this season’s fashions must look like an upholstered plaid cardboard box.”

Steampunk

Mary Delfin, who I met at a goth stitch and bitch group, has a passion for steampunk fashion, which is based on fantasy fiction set in Victorian England during the steam power era. She’s often inspired by the Steampunk Fashion LiveJournal (community.livejournal.com/steamfashion).

“I start from scratch or look at what is available then chop and sew,” Delfin says. When a garment becomes worn out, she “might take the sleeves off and combine it with another article of clothing”.Her favourite tip is to always have safety pins on hand for an emergency, such as when an oil lamp set her skirt on fire, “exposing my underwear”. “We were heading to a club so I closed the hole with safety pins. I was nicknamed ‘Groin of Fire’ for about a month.”

When wearing costumes in public, Delfin says, it’s important to watch out for door handles, plants and escalators that tend to catch on “long trains and droopy bits”.

“I was in a taxi and slammed the door on my own frock and it caught under the rear wheel as we drove off.”

Sew as you go

Delfin put me onto her friend, Anna Kucharski, 32, who is a prolific costume maker.

“I’ve had no special training; it’s all been learning as I go,” she says. “I’ve made some things without a pattern, but I try to find patterns even if that means buying three separate ones and modifying them into one outfit.

When making a costume, she guesses how much fabric is needed. Then she wraps the fabric around herself and holds it in place with pins until it looks right, and stitches it. “I rarely do a mock-up costume,” Kucharski says. She sketches cutting lines directly onto the fabric. If she can’t find the right shape of beading or trim, she finds something similar and paints or modifies it.

She recently made matching outfits for herself and her partner for a late-1800s theme wedding and is making a Professor Snape outfit for the next Harry Potter release.

Her tips for wearing costumes include noting that “long false nails make everything more difficult” and “put your shoes on before you’re laced into a corset”.

Furry friends

I met Patrick Bremner, 27, at an anarchists’ stitch and bitch group. He’s a member of the furry community, which likes to dress up as anthropomorphic animal characters. “Wearing furry gear out to large dance parties always gets a good reception,” Bremner says.

He studies theatre costume making at Ultimo TAFE and helps make outfits at an alternative clothing store, The Wild One, in Newtown (www.thewildone.com.au).

Bremner likes a “weird hybrid of vintage, cyber-goth and theatre-inspired outfits”.

“I like it to be loud, colour co-ordinated and kooky. You can wear anything anywhere if you have the confidence. People love you for it.”

For inspiration, he looks at online images of Tank Girl, Dita Von Teese and furry art.“I have also dabbled in medieval re-creationist societies. The Society for Creative Anachronism [www.sca.org.au] holds fairs, tournaments and feasts throughout the year.”

Late bloomer

Bremner often refers to the Australian Costumers’ Guild website (www.australiancostumersguild.org.au) for tips. It’s a non-profit group that provides forums on costume tips, holds regular workshops and social meetings, and is an excellent site for beginners. Members dress up and go to movie premieres or various theme conventions.

NSW Guild Chapter organiser Wendy*, 43, was a “late bloomer” to costuming, though she’d been making her everyday clothing for the past 30 years.

“Three years ago I found a lump on my ribs and in the couple of days between discovery and test results – a benign tumour – I thought about what I’d regret not having done. And [making] costumes was high on the list.”

She has studied shoemaking at TAFE and is part way through a certificate in pattern-making.

“I still get nervous when I start something I haven’t tried before. I like to make the best I can with the least amount of hand-sewing,” she says.

“The act of creating is a bit addictive and self-medicating. When I broke my foot two years ago and couldn’t sew for months – it was my foot-pedal foot – I got cranky, like a junkie deprived of a fix. I bought a 1960s sewing machine that has a knee lever instead of a foot pedal.”

When you’re reproducing a character’s costume, you don’t need to look anything like the actor. Describing herself as an “older stout woman”, Wendy copied Nikki Webster’s Olympic opening ceremony outfit for the guild’s annual 2002 convention.

“I couldn’t find a pink hibiscus flower fabric for the dress so I bought pink fabric, made a stencil of a hibiscus flower and painted lots of them on. I outlined all the edges with a black [marker] pen.

“I knew I couldn’t wash the dress or wear it again as I’d used acrylic craft paint instead of fabric paint. I also dyed a pair of sandals pink. A lot of people knew the costume but couldn’t place who I was. I was a good 20 years older and far from her twiglet figure.”

Dark side

Justin Yem, 27, has made costumes for 12 years and has run the Sydney production of Rocky Horror Audience Participation Picture Show for almost five years.

He wears costumes when he attends many midnight movie premieres.“When I’m doing something hard I try a few trial and errors on test costumes and see what works,” Yem says.

Two of his favourite costumes include an angel outfit with 1.5-metre wings he made for a drag queen, and a recent straitjacket he made overnight without a pattern.

His claim to fame, though, is winning a Star Wars costume competition when he wasn’t wearing a costume.

A friend dared him to enter when he was wearing a black Bonds T-shirt, black trousers and black 20-hole Doc Martens. “The competition was starting right then so I sprinted down the stairs to the cinema tripping and rolling. I jumped on the end of the line, which included a perfect Twi’lek [a blue-skin humanoid with a giant tentacle coming out of the head], several Padmes and a Darth Maul.

“The MC asked each person who they were and listened to the applause, he asks me which character I am and I reply ‘Ummm, anonymous extra B’ and the audience erupted.

“The MC worked out who had the largest responses and narrowed it down to me and the Darth Maul. The MC raised his hand over my head and the audience went crazy. I was awarded first place but, luckily, when we got off the stage, the MC gave us both first place prizes, so Darth was a good sport about it. But I was getting death stares from the Twi’lek for the rest of the night.

“A week later, my chest was still hurting from rolling down the stairs so I went to the doctor and discovered that I’d fractured three ribs. It’s just the price you pay.”

* Surname withheld

Vision splendid

If you don’t have any idea of how to sew, see sites such as YouTube (www.youtube.com – type in “DIY fashion” and “Thread Heads”) or Videojug (www.videojug.com) for lessons on making garments and accessories. For knitting lessons, see Knitting Help (www.knittinghelp.com).

Volunteer work over summer vacation

Am doing several visits to Juvenile Justice Centre (presenting 2 one-hr programs and helping out on other occasions), and, so far, one visit to help the homeless.

And volunteered to help 12,000 prospective students with info about getting in to law at USyd.

All good experiences.